Time eats up the world!
How true the Upanishadic statement is! Well, I do not have to certify it as the Truth. I am only happy that the Truth of the statement has dawned upon me! I am humbled by the statement. We all have to live this day as if Tomorrow does not exist for [...]
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Kaalo Jagath Bhakshakaha
Posted in Love, Ultimate Truth, dropping identities, empowering, food for thought, greetings, life's dilemmas, spirituality, thoughts and emotions, tagged dropping identities, ego nurturing, egolessness, the Ultimate Truth, TIME, whiling away time on February 25, 2008 | 7 Comments »
This Valentine’s Day, Love All !
Posted in Love, adding dimensions, empowering, food for thought, greetings, our mind, people, philosophy, psychology, society, spirituality, spreading awareness, thoughts and emotions, youth, tagged adjustments and compromises, commitment, commitment phobia, common interests, connotations, emotional closeness, emotional drifting, everlasting love, greetings, infatuation, intimacy, limitless and unconditional, Love, marriage, passion, physical attraction, proximity, roses, sharing and caring, spiritual, valentine's day, youth on February 14, 2008 | 3 Comments »
February 14th is an exciting day for young and old lovers alike. It can be a day of celebration of love. Love of all hues and colours, with all its grandness and simplicity. It gives me great pleasure to greet you all on the occasion of Valentine’s Day and say that I Love You All [...]
ADOPTION and related issues – 4
Posted in adding dimensions, adoption, children, counselling, empowering, food for thought, life's dilemmas, our mind, parenting, people, philosophy, psychology, society, spreading awareness, thoughts and emotions, youth, tagged adoption in indian context, conditions for adoption, procedure on January 8, 2008 | 5 Comments »
In this post I would like to discuss other issues connected with adoption, more in the context of Indian milieu.
Who are the ones who generally adopt a child?
Married couples who have not had a child of their own, due to various reasons, who now want to go in for adoption.
Married couples who have their biological child/children [...]
ADOPTION and related psychological issues – 3
Posted in adding dimensions, adoption, children, counselling, empowering, food for thought, life skills, life's dilemmas, our mind, parenting, people, philosophy, psychology, society, spreading awareness, thoughts and emotions, youth, tagged adopted children, adoption, adoptive parents, betrayal of trust, birth parents, child, confused emotions, disturbed behaviour, fear of abandonment, fear of rejection, honesty and trust, parent, search for roots, Self support group, Sudatta Bangalore, teenage adoptees, teenage identity crisis on January 5, 2008 | 10 Comments »
Many of the doubts and confusions about adoption are alleviated during the pre-adoption counselling sessions. Here it is very important to note that both the husband and wife need to be in total consensus to go in for adoption. In case one of them is not too sure or hesitant or unwilling, it is imperative [...]
ADOPTION and related psychological issues – 2
Posted in adoption, children, counselling, empowering, food for thought, life skills, life's dilemmas, our mind, parenting, people, personality, philosophy, psychology, society, spreading awareness, thoughts and emotions, youth, tagged adopted children, adoption, adoptive parents, betrayal of trust, birth parents, child, confused emotions, disturbed behaviour, fear of abandonment, fear of rejection, parent on January 3, 2008 | 7 Comments »
So which is the right age to inform the child that it was adopted? well, those who have made a long term study of teh cases opine that it is best to inform the child as soon as you start interacting with it. In your day to day activities, whenever there arises an opportunity to [...]
ADOPTION and related psychological issues – 1
Posted in adding dimensions, adoption, children, counselling, empowering, food for thought, life skills, life's dilemmas, our mind, parenting, people, philosophy, psychology, society, spirituality, spreading awareness, thoughts and emotions, youth, tagged adopted children, adoption, adoptive parents, betrayal of trust, birth parents, confused emotions, disturbed behaviour, revealation by third party on January 2, 2008 | 19 Comments »
As a psychological counsellor, I have come across many adoptive parents and adopted children seeking counselling for various emotional issues. And somewhere deep down in my heart I used to wonder if I had counselled them effectively or not. Some times it becomes very difficult to transport myself into the minds of my clients and experience [...]
Usher in 2008 with some food for thought!
Posted in education, empowering, food for thought, greetings, life's dilemmas, people, philosophy, psychology, society, thoughts and emotions, tit bits, youth, tagged food for thought, His Holiness Sri Dalai Lama, make a difference in life, paradoxes of our times, value erosion on December 31, 2007 | 5 Comments »
My dearest readers,
My heartiest greetings to all of you for the New Year 2008!
May we all be lead from insensitivity to sensitivity; self-centredness to other-centredness; ignorance to wisdom!
Here are some sentences from the spiritual guru His Holiness Sri Dalai Lama upon the Paradoxes of Our Times. Even if you have read it elsewhere before , I [...]
Fasting – Feasting
Posted in empowering, food for thought, society, spirituality, tagged Bakrid, Christmas, connectedness of all, Easter, feasting, Ramzan, Religious fasting, Vaikunta Ekadashi on December 21, 2007 | 3 Comments »
In all religions we have periods in which people of that faith pray, fast and feel accountable to all their deeds, and then followed by a festival on which they feast!
Yesterday was Vaikunta Ekadashi according to Hindu calender. Ekadashi is the 11th day of each fortnight in a month when many Hindus observe fast and next [...]
Fear – biological or behaviour based?
Posted in adding dimensions, empowering, food for thought, genetic engineering, life skills, our mind, personality, psychology, research, spirituality, thoughts and emotions, tit bits, tagged cats and rats, fear, fearlessness, genetic modification, innate trait, internal enemies, soul modification on December 16, 2007 | 11 Comments »
People have a variety of fears. Some fear darkness, some fear animals, some others fear loss of face, some people fear death of self or death of loved ones and other so many. Some even have irrational, inexplicable fears of such high intensity that can upset the quality of their everyday life. Such intense, irrational [...]
Fate vs Free will
Posted in adding dimensions, counselling, education, empowering, food for thought, life skills, life's dilemmas, our mind, people, philosophy, psychology, spirituality, thoughts and emotions, tit bits, youth, tagged fate, free will, karma, sri sri sri chandrashekhara bharathi swamiji of sringer on December 12, 2007 | 2 Comments »
“There is only a thin dividing line between the attitude of escapism and acceptance”
it made me wonder how so many of us take the easy route of saying that something is “my karma and hence I have to bear it”, instead of putting sincere effort to alleviate the difficult situation! Whenever we feel lazy to [...]
