Two days ago we all learnt about a suicide bombing at Baghdad’s two pet markets, in Iraq, that killed nearly 75 people, wounding 150 people and hundreds of birds and other pet animals. Many of you may not even have read it as these days we have all become immune to such suicide bombings and killings as they have become the daily news in all news papers! and we have lost the sensitivity to even grieve over such matters.
But the most horrible fact about these two bombings were the two suicide bombers were girls with Down’s syndrome! and a person with Down’s syndrome does not have normal intellectual capacity and he/she is a mentally challenged person. How can such a person willingly give consent to be a suicide bomber? Surely, the girls here must have been tricked into it! and that is the most tragic part of the whole incident. How can this be an act of “jihadi”? Would Allah praise such an act??
Many of you may have heard of the term “Down’s syndrome”, but may not know what exactly the term refers to. Let me briefly explain.
Down’s syndrome is a life long condition of disability that results in mental retardation. The retardation can be of mild/moderate/severe degree. It is a chromosomal anomaly called “Trisomy 21″ in which there occurs 3 chromosomes in set 21 instead of 2 chromosomes. Human beings have 23 pairs of chromosomes (46 in total) in each cell of the body, except in sex cells, eggs and sperms, where only 23 chromosomes are present. These 23 become 46 when the egg and the sperm get fertilized to procreate and the species continues with 46. These 46 chromosomes are arranged in pairs of two and there are 23 such sets. But in Down syndrome child, the 21st set of chromosomes contain 3 chromosomes instead of the usual two (totalling to 47) and this excess genetic material in each cell results in a dsabling condition called Down’s syndrome, named after the scientist Langer Down who described this anomaly.
I have mentioned Trisomy 21 as the cause of this disability. In a small 2 to 3% of Downs syndrome, the cause is Mosaic Trisomy 21 that appears not in all body cells but only in few of the cells. Whether it is plain Trisomy 21 or mosaic, the features are the same and the degree of disability does not depend on the kind of the cause.
All children born in this condition share very similar facial characteristics that make them all look alike. They generally have a round, flat face with slanted eyes. They slant upwards and they have an extra skin fold on their eye lids that accentuate this slant. But they can have normal vision like anybody else. The babies have poor muscle tone and are floppy at birth. Slowly their muscle tone improves as they grow. It is also observed that these kids have a single crease running on their palm instead of the usual three deep ones that run on our palms (some normal kids also have only one crease on their palm, but not have down’s syndrome). They also have a large gap between their big toe and the second toe that usually grips the sandal. Their tongue usually protrudes outside as they have a smaller oral-cavity and a larger base of the tongue that keeps their mouth slightly open always. This may make them vulnerable to many respiratory infections.
Like in any other condition of mental retardation, these children also show delayed developmental milestones. Their motor (movement), speech and language, social and cognitive development are all slow. The condition can be detected at birth itself by the pediatrician and it is obligatory on their part to inform the baby’s condition to the parents at that time. But unfortunately in India, many Downs Syndrome births go undetected or uninformed to parents that it may jeopardize early interventional strategies that can mitigate the damages to a large extent.
The condition can not be cured. But their abilities can improve to a very large extent by training that is given in special schools. A positive and an accepting attitude on part of parents, siblings and other relatives can help the child to a very large extent to improve its skills. These days many early intervention programmes are taken up at various special centres to children of a much younger age, as soon as it is identified. Physio therapy programmes can improve their muscles’ and joints’ strengths that improve their mobility skills and their gross and fine motor skills (bigger muscles and smaller muscles of the body). Most of them have speech delays and speech problems. They may lack clarity in their speech, articulation problems, language reception and expression problems that can be reduced through speech therapy. Most of these children are friendly by nature and they draw attention from others through their smiling face and readiness to strike friendship with others. This also makes them very vulnerable and children need to be protected from any kind of abuse. Their social skills make them very endearing to all and they are very helpful in nature. Many of them love music and dance. Depending on their intellectual level, they can be taught functional academics that teach them the basic reading and writing skills. They are soon trained in vocations of their interest and later on as adults they can work in sheltered workshops under supervision. Some downs syndrome adults can lead fairly independent life.
As I mentioned earlier, they are prone to many respiratory diseases and many children have congenital (by birth) heart defects too. These children may have to undergo heart surgeries at a later date when they can withstand the surgery.
Coming to the sexuality aspect, they also have normal sexual desires like any other person. But their cognitive deficits may make them vulnerable to sexual abuse and exploitation. And as adults, they get isolated from the mainstream and this loneliness also makes them vulnerable to any kind of affection offered by the abusers. They need to be given sex education like any other person. The fertility rate is reduced in women with Downs syndrome and researchers believe that males may be sterile. But one case of a downs male fathering a child has been cited in journals. Many females with Downs are fertile and there are many instances of them carrying their pregnancy to term and successfully delivering kids – either downs child or a normal child. These are cases from abroad and in India, it is very difficult to get such a person married and expect to carry out the responsibility of a marriage relationship and rearing a child. But it is not impossible with family support. Just because somebody is disabled, we can not deny them their marital and sexual rights. It is purely their family decision.
When such are the abilities/differences in their ability levels of Downs syndrome persons, it is highly condemnable that two downs syndrome girls’ vulnerability was used and abused by the terrorist gang in Iraq and they have now fallen victims to their suicidal bombing pact!
Our heartfelt condolences to the families of these two innocent Down syndrome girls.

i never knew that suicide bombers used can be metnally retarted ones..its really very sad to hear that..
people generally feel that mentally retarted people are prone to early death//.is that true ?
or its just a misconception..
arvind, thanks for the question you have raised.
it has been found that the longevity of the mentally challenged is slightly lesser than the general population. this is more so because of their cognitive deficits and their inability to express and communicate to others their health problems. this precipitates the illness, goes under-recognized and becomes unmanageable at later stages that may lead to death earlier than it would in the normal population.
earlier times, the life expectancy of the Down syndrome persons was about 35 to 40 years. many of them used to develop various kinds of cardio-respiratory-vascular diseases but with the advancement of medical science and better availability of health facilities to them, longevity has significantly increased to about 55 to 60 years. but it is found that most of the downs syndrome persons experience early onset of dementia of alzeimer’s kind by the age of 50 years.
even others with mental retardation experience earlier onset of alzeimer’s than the general population. this can lead to depression, frustration, more aggression and general decline in all their adaptive skills. this can in turn pose more health and hygiene problems and make them vulnerable to many serious illnesses. there are also many whom we have all seen who grow old like any of us and meet natural death at a ripe age.
thanks , do the mentally retarted ones have the same feelings and emotions as we have…
i mean their face expessions never seem to change.
They do have the same feelings as everyone. They are most times more sensitive than other people being able to read emotions and give a caring hug when needed. I am a mother of a 13 year old boy and I could not imagine a day without him in my life. I am assuming you have never met a person with mr because they are very animated and will make sure you know how they feel.
# linda
thank you, linda, for the visit and answering arvind’s querie. from your comment i can see how much you love your son and how much he reciprocates your love. may god bless your family!
#arvind
human emotions are universal. the whole spectrum of emotions experienced by people are same everywhere in the world, regardless of their intellectual status. a person who is intellectually impaired also experiences the usual emotions of happiness, sorrow, surprise, anger, repulsion, jealousy etc. only that the expression of these emotions may get exaggerated or can become inappropriate socially in some people with mental retardation. these people need to be trained to express their emotions in an appropriate way. for that matter, how many, so called normal people, exhibit uncontrollable emotions that are expressed in undesirable ways?!
perhaps you are referring to some psychologically disturbed / mentally ill patients whose face is blank and they exhibit no emotions at all. many people who undergo various kinds of bitterness/ severe tragedies in life become numb to emotions. they lose sensitivity to their own feelings and feelings of others too. such people have a blank expression on their face.
many people think that the terms mental illness and mental retardation are one and the same. no, they are not. mental retardation is a life long condition of disability that has manifested during the developmental years of a person (0 to 18 years) and is not curable, but can only be trained to become as nearly normal as possible; whereas, mental illness is a condition that can afflict a person at any age due to some life trauma undergone or due to disturbances in the production of certain neuro transmitters in the brain. the advancement in pharmocological field, as well as availability of various forms of therapy have made the mental illness curable.
as linda has pointed out above in her comment, most of the people with MR are very affectionate, loving and caring and show so much of concern for others’ feelings. they show lot of pro-social (helping w/o expecting any returns) behaviour and become darlings of everybody.
@ linda ,latha
thanks , really it was informative.. keep posting good things.
It is so heart-wrenching to hear of the exploitation of children and young people, especially those with medical conditions or disabilities, by terrorists. I think that most of these young suicide bombers are, at best, exploited and brainwashed. They become victims as much as the other victims.
thank you, shelley, for your visit and comment concerning young victims.
we, as global citizens, can not let our young and innocent boys and girls to become victims of such barbaric acts. every school requires programmes to wean the children away from hostility and violence. and every family needs to nurture harmony and peace.
here is a comment that i received from angee.
“angee72@aol.com” to me
As a parent of a child with Down Syndrome, I wanted to say I thought you did an excellent job describing Down Syndrome to educate those who are reading your article so that they could understand the implications of the bombing. I appreciate any effort made to increase the awareness of Down Syndrome and to highlight the atrocity that occurred with these bombings.
I would like to correct you when you wrote that people with down syndrome “all look alike”. It is true that there are physical characteristics associated with DS. However just as various cultures and ethnicities have specific physical characteristics they do not all all look alike. Asians do not all look alike. Native American Indians do not all look alike. Italians do not all look alike. As a group they may look different than other groups but they do not all look alike. Every person with down syndrome has a unique combination of physical characteristics that make him/her an individual just like every other group of people. To say otherwise perpetuates stereotypes and facilitates barriers of recognizing a person’s individual value.
Again thank you for your article and effort to promote awareness.
Respectfully,
Angi Falzoi
latha vidyaranya to angee72
Feb 10 (1 day ago)
thank you, angee, for your educative comment. i hope you do not mind me publishing your comment in my blog. i await your permission to do so.
i stand corrected about that sentence of mine “they all look alike”. yes, i understand the danger of stereotyping. i respect their individuality and uniqueness. thanks for the kind correction.
love to your family,
latha
“angee72@aol.com” to me
Feb 10 (23 hours ago)
Latha- thank you for such a prompt reply. I do not mind if you would like to add my comment to your blog. Again, I appreciate your efforts to bring this to the mainstream and for your receptiveness of my comment.
Sincerely
Angi Falzoi
The US military itself has now been forced to admit that the “bombers” did NOT have Downs Syndrome. This was deliberate misinformation to create an uproar and disgust across the world. It was not true. There is no evidence to prove that women with Downs Syndrome were “used” in the attack. Nonsense, misinformation. Even some of the official news agencies have reported this now (obviously with less attention than the original FALSE story).
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080220/ap_on_re_mi_ea/iraq_bombers;_ylt=Asy7fMIcX5VfIBdfMcc08Q39xg8F
thank you, alex, for your message. later on even i came across in news papers that the information about the involvement of down syndrome girls in the iraq bombing was untrue. well, it is very difficult to establish the veracity of such happenings.
anyway, the incident inspired me to spread awareness about downs syndrome and i was happy that the post sensitized a few people.
thanks again for the visit.
Mr Alaa. H. M . Al-Jassim
& Dr . R.K.B. al- Mosawi
E-mail : alaaaljassim@yahoo.com
Dear Sir
My daughter ( Nadia Alaa . H. AL- Jassim ) is 14 years old she has many problems in school because of dyslexia ( she failed twice , splashily in history, joyografy and English her second language) we don’t have in our country such program’s in school or center to treated this problem
There for I would like to give me a letter to joint your center to diagnose her condition and to lead us to the suitable program’s to solved her problem , but My daughter is IRAQ now would you please send me a letter to arrange an appointment to diagnose her and solved her problem
Her mother die because of diabetes and her step mother took care of her now
Yours Faithfully
Alaa al- Jassim
& DR. R.K.B.AL- Mosawi
dear sir, thanks for your visit to my blog and raising this point.
you may write to either of these two addresses: (you will find them on the web too)
PRAYATNA
Dr Aruna Shankara narayan
# 26, Palace Road, near Mt Carmel College, Bangalore, India
Tel: 91-80- 2228 0831
or
Spastic Society
Diagnostic & Research Centre
Mrs Vijaya prema
# 31, 5th cross, off 5th main, 1st stage Indiranagar, Bangalore, India
tel:91-80- 4074 5900, 91-80-2528 0935
they will be able to send a letter to the concerned authority at her school to allow permission to come down and get the issue diagnosed properly and to seek suitable guidance and counselling.
may god be with your family.